why do we need friends?

This is a very important question, as you see everybody think that life without friends has no meaning, but i disagree with that thought; cause i think that friendship is an overestimated idea,you will ask me why? I'll tell you in few points:

1. In the concept of friendship a friend should always wish the best for his/her friend....right? OK...i want anybody from those who are going to read this post to tell me that he/she never wished bad Luke to his/her friend especially (her), tell me that you never wished your friend to be fatter than you or not beautiful as you or not rich as you, don't feel imparessed it's human nature to enjoy the misery of others.



2. In the concept of friendship a friend should always help his/her friend in any situation he needs him in, and make efforts to enable his friend to solve his problem, but instead of this everybody prefer to stand out and watch.....just watch maybe cause he doesn't want to get involved with problems or people which require extra efforts from his side.



3. In the concept of friendship a friend should always be there for his/her friend, which we know it's impossible to happened; cause everyone has his own life which is very crouded with people and matters.



4. In the concept of friendship a friend should always feel his/her friends pain or sadness, and try to Cher him up, but as far as i know nowadays there is no friend who asks his friend whats the matter with him or even notice that there is a matter with him, and even if he noticed and asked he will unconsciously Chang the subject to make it about himself.



5. In the concept of friendship a friend should always fill his friends heart with happiness and joy, but i think we all know that rarly happen.

In the end I'd like to say that there are some rare conditions where these thoughts become wrong, if you know any pleas tell me, i also don't want any of what I've said to depress you cause if you think it over you will find that there is nothing you can do but trying to be a better friend and hope to find a friend who is also trying.

Sal3:)